Anthropologically speaking, and as many studies demonstrate, women are looking for a provider. But that is not all. It's been demonstrated time and again that even if a man is rich, if he's too short, women will draw the line, so to speak, and let him know how tall he needs to be to get on her ride. Intelligence is reflected in emotional, communicable and intellectual terms that combine to help women determine if they can trust you. Status, personality, age, weight, and character are all secondary. For example, when women say they like a guy with a sense of humor, they usually mean 3T plus the sense of humor. Some women want 3T, plus time and attention. Money alone is not the answer. Your high income is attractive not because she only wants her material needs met, but she also wants the time and flexibility a man can buy with the money he makes. This is especially true if a woman earns more than her man. The bottom line is that her interest in you is enabled by the perceptions she surmises from seeing the other 3T elements in place. The illusion is that the 3T man will seem more confident, and therefore make it easier for a woman to submit to his lead in a relationship. How many times have you seen a gorgeous girl with a terrible guy who treated her poorly? Why doesn't a man become less attractive when he is ugly or twice her age? It's because these factors don't matter from a 3T perspective. A man can be bald, overweight and completely hairy and still be her cuddly teddy bear. Check closer to see if the man is taller, smarter than her in some subject, or earns more. 3T is the unspoken attraction, that cuddly feeling she gets that makes her feel safe and stable. Look around and you'll see. For example, a rock star like Steven Tyler from Aerosmith is old and not terribly good looking. But he is 3T as far as his income, his stature (he's 5'9") and what he knows from his talent and experience. True, he's exceptionally wealthy, but even an ordinary man doesn't have to be exceptionally rich or powerful to make women want him. It's all a matter of the women's perspective if he ends up taller, smarter or wealthier than them. Some dating advice says to go for the easy pickup, the more nave women, the unaware, or those with low self-esteem that have potential to be gorgeous but maybe don't know it yet. But the 1-2-3 of the 3T formula works on both mature and immature women. It also gives you long-term staying power along with the short-term attraction. When you first see a woman, you immediately know if you want to sleep with her, just from appearance. She would need to open her mouth for you to consider not bedding her. For women, however, it takes a lot more time because, visually, they can only determine your physical stature. It takes more time and research to find out if you are well-read or have a good income. We'll try to find out by asking around, looking at your car, or determining where you live. Women find out if you're educated by talking to you about various subjects and seeing if you can hold a conversation. If she thinks you're slightly smarter, you're in! applying 3t Once you bait with 3T, you have to close the deal and maintain the relationship. What does this mean to you? If you're already a 3T guy, that's great. You can pick up women even it you're ugly. You've had them put up with you even when you're moody or downright arrogant. You can be a jerk and your girlfriend will make excuses for you, saying you're just "confident." A shorter, less wealthy or educated guy would have been kicked to the curb already for coming across as too aggressive or irritating. If you are light on one of the Ts, there is hope. In the worst case, some women will sleep with you because they feel sorry for you, but this is only temporary till a 3T guy shows up and steals her away. You can fake it by making yourself appear to be strong or full of potential in these three areas even if you aren't. 1- Education The easiest way to get ahead is education. All you have to do is read. You can know a little about a variety of subjects, or know a lot about one specific subject. Women are drawn to experts like the Crocodile Hunter, Bill Gates and Chris Rock because they're experts in their industries. If you're in school, not only are there more women available, but you've already demonstrated to them that you're getting educated. Otherwise, it's up to you to come across as reliable and credible without making her feel dumb. 2- Salary High cash flow is more difficult. Etiquette and acting classy are good ways to seem richer to a woman because this behavior is associated with wealth. Wearing the right clothes, especially nice shoes, can go a long way toward portraying wealth. Taking on the unshaken or unworried attitude of wealthy men can project affluence. Hesitant, irresolute, bland men come across as having lower incomes and being less reliable. Remember; money is just an energy that represents some emotion for women. Money is equivalent to affection, and perhaps gives them a sense of freedom, security and power. You can substitute money for feelings. For example, if she likes the freedom she gets from having money, you could ramble around in a motor home on hardly any cash and she'll be happy. On the other hand, if she is the "money=attention" type, she'll require that you pay for her spa treatments and nice hotels, otherwise she'll feel unloved. If money is security to her, you can get by on less money if your investments don't seem outrageously risky to her. If she thinks money is power, she may be hesitant to give you complete control of it because she may feel it garners her less respect from you or her peers. 3- Height Height is the most challenging. Men have tried everything from shoe lifts to dating shorter women. Studies have shown that even if you add wealth, success, education, caring, or other desirable traits to a man's profile, if he isn't tall enough, women still won't give him a try. Great talent or power can add inches to your stature. Think of Napoleon, Mickey Rooney or Groucho; they are humorous, artistic or politically powerful men who wooed women into their beds and, horizontally, the height issue wasn't a factor. Polite and persuasive persistence is the best trait. be her dream man Being 3T or portraying 3T will definitely get you admission to the dating game. Most women don't consciously realize this formula is working on them, either. They'd like to believe it's more of an intuitive feeling or process. But you know what? Height, smarts and bucks are great guidelines when men realize how simple and effective they really are.